After the birth of my first daughter, I think what bothered me most was being a full time stay at home mom. Of course, both my husband and me decided that it was best for our situation as we don’t have any family close by to help out and I was not about to put my newborn baby in daycare. Not that I have anything against people who do so, but it was just not right for my family at the time. Firstly, daycare costs an arm and a leg in my area, I would be working just to barely make that payment. Secondly, we knew that we wanted another kid close in age. Last August my youngest turned two, and within the last year I have been wanting to get back to work.
Most of my work experience and all of my education was done in my home country so it was a matter of sitting down and figuring out what I wanted to do. I majored in Information Technology but it’s something that I’m not interested in getting back into. Too much time has past and I’ve lost my zeal in that field. So I did research and tried to analyze what kind of job to get or what course I should do to enhance my skills. But there was the matter of paying for daycare, and before and after school programs for my kids. After doing the calculations, I realized it wouldn’t be worth it, unless I could land a really nice paying job right off the bat. Having not been in the work force for a number of years, we all know how rarely that happens.
So again, I sat down and thought about the things that I know how to do best, my skill-set and how I could utilize that to make money from home. Working from home is a decision not driven only by making some extra cash. I’m at a low when I’m unproductive and feel very sad or depressed if you want to call it that. My husband often argues that I do a lot for my kids by being very present in their lives doing this and that but still, I was raised with a strong work ethic and I needed to get back into it. What I do know, is how to write and I’ve been working on books for years and years. However, it’s hard to make an income as an author. The book takes years, then it takes years of networking to get people to notice your book. Even then, it still may never work and I don’t want to treat my stories as something to sell. At the end of the day, I write for me. For self-fulfillment and if someone happens to like it, then I’d be elated.
Around the same time I was researching working from home(this summer), one of my friends messaged me about a website that basically hires freelancers of various kinds. Graphics, virtual assistants, and writers among others. I saw it as a small window to start offering writing as a service. It hasn’t been that long and the money isn’t that great but I’ve learned how to balance working from home and family time. Although, it’s difficult and I’ll create an entire post about my experience. I’ve also gained some exposure to working with clients, and experience in the field that I’m pursuing. I know I’m not on it as much as I should but for the mean time, it works for my and my family. I’m available to drop my kindergartener off and pick her up, be present for different things that I’d most likely have to skip out on. The last several months has definitely been an eye opener, a learning curve in my life.
Reading over this post, I realized I haven’t mentioned what it is exactly that I write. I write copy for websites, specifically sales copy of various kinds. There’s a list of other services that I do offer and a website is currently in progress for that. I just wanted to share my not-so-spectacular story about how I derived at the decision to work from home. Hopefully it all works out in the future but one thing I can take from this entire experience is that you really have to want something and you have to work hard at it. There’s always so much more you can do to progress.
Have a great week ahead guys, thank you for stopping by and stay tuned for another Work From Home post.